Friday, June 27, 2008

The 101th post

Just realised that this is the 101th post of my blog.

You might start calculating the total number of the archive post and found that "hey, ai mei... where got 101 post?"
Haha.. You are right. There are less than 100 posts in the archive.

Since I started this blog, I used to think of any topics to write when I have time. Such as in the bus/train or sometime during working hour. oppps... shhh.. Keep it low. Don't let my boss know. ;p
However, due to my laziness, all the topics can end up in 3 different way.
1. remain in my brain. This happen most of the time due to the laziness.
2. write half way and save as draft without publish in the blog. Sound stupid to do so, but still I will stop half way.
3. published in my blog and read by all of you. This is the best ending if and only if I have the mood to finish the whole blog. ;p;p

Haha.. Anyway, congratulation to my blog for the 101th post I have.
Since this is the 101th post, let's me blow the candle and make a wish.
. . .
lOl
Huhhh.....
lOl
Hope that.... (ppl said wish won't come true if we say it out.)

Lastly, thanks to all my royal readers... If you have any suggestions or feedback on my blogs, welcome to do so. Thank you very much. ;)

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

The Donkey

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well.
The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do.
Finally, he decided the animal was old,
and the well needed to be covered up anyway;
it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him.
They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well.

At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly.
Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.
A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well.
He was astonished at what he saw.

With each shovel of dirt that hit his back,
the donkey was doing something amazing.
He would shake it off and take a step up.
As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal,
he would shake it off and take a step up.

Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt.
The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up.
Each of our troubles is a steppingstone.
We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up!
Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.
2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happens.
3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less from people but more from God.

Monday, June 16, 2008

Monday Blue

It's Monday again.
It's another month after the last month meeting.
It's another tired day after yesterday.

Yes, it is true that I am very tired recently.
Particially due to unable to sleep well these few weeks.
Also, might be due to a bit over usage of my brain.

Every now and then, I can think of a lot of topic to post in my blog.
However, the moment I sit in front of my laptop, my brain just close the door from me.
Perhaps, the moment I sit in front of my laptop is getting lesser and lesser.

Is all these because of Monday Blue?
Will I have this feeling if today is Friday?

God knows.... ;P

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

人生

我们一出世,就被教导做个好孩子
拼命的读书,好了读完书了。大学也毕业了。
拼命的做工,赚多多的钱。。。
拼命的存钱,买房子,车子,保险
不小心找到了老婆,好了,结婚了,钱也用完了
再拼命的做工,好了30岁了,开始瓶颈。。。
再拼命的读PARTTIME,好了,学位高了。。。
拼命的抚育孩子,好了,孩子读书了。。。
拼命的灌输孩子要努力读书。。。。
自己拼命的做工。。。学位高了,压力也高了。。。
回到家,妻子照顾孩子,不得空理你。。
孩子忙着读书,不得空理你。。
月头,样样都是钱。
孩子和你拿钱。
妻子和你拿钱
房子和你拿钱
保险和你拿钱
车子和你拿钱
过年了,更加多钱
除了以上,
母亲和你拿钱
红包和你拿钱
旅行和你拿钱
NIKE,LEVI,PRADA,GUCCI,REEBOK,PADINI。。。和你拿钱
海外天也可能和你拿钱
40岁,男人危机。。。
拼命的工作,保住职位。。。
成了大家眼中的势利同事。。。
开始害怕失去工作,开始留意年轻同事。。。
想读书,钱,没有了,想换工,薪金高,岁数大,难讨新工
想尽办法,还是不能爬上经理职位,还被一个年轻人上了位。。
孩子开始读中学了,和你拿更多的钱。
父亲节,拿你给的钱,买了你没有用的东西。。。。
房子还是和你要钱
车子旧了,开始不听话了。。。还是要给钱
妻子也是一样和你拿钱,旦绝对没有收条给你看。夫妻要信任
好不容易熬过50了,要退休了,无风无浪。。。虽然压力大,新上司意见多多,不要紧。我顶!
就要拿公积金咯!但是孩子要出国读书--« 200千!
好了,公积金拿完出来了,一大半给了孩子,剩下的给了妻子
还是回到零。。。退休了,不用做???不能
几十年没有呆在家,忽然和妻子相处。。。
妻子看不顺眼丈夫无所事事,命令丈夫开始学做家事,!
扫地,抹地,剪草,洗车,样样都要做。。。
好了,房子供完了。。。车子也没有什么驾了。。。
开始觉得人生很无奈,自己从一个提款机,最后变成了一个佣人。
孩子出国回来了,拍了一些照片。。。开始找工了。。。
毕业=失业 , 工难找,最后找到一份只可以养活自己的工作。还是要住在家里。。。吃,交通。去的薪金的一大半。。所以只是意思意思的给RM100给父母做伙食费。。。
3年过去了,孩子好不容易累计的工作经验,薪金高了。。。但是却开始要买辆汽车代步。。。母亲帮助+自己储蓄,给了头期。。。有了汽车,费用也多了。。还是意思意思给RM200作伙食费
好不容易的工作开始稳定了,但是却认识了一个女朋友。。。开始了人生计划。。。要买房子了。。。
由于车子+女朋友费用太大,还是不能给伙食费太多,而且女朋友说3年计划,全部钱要储蓄。。。
2年后,终于买了房子,买了房子,开始要结婚了。。。
我终于有用途了,被叫去提亲。。什么都不可以多说,全部老婆讲。自己讲些客套话就行了。。。
摆酒,婚礼,旅行。。。用了一大笔+母亲储蓄+ 我剩下的公积金
我还是回归零,。。。继续的剪草,扫地,做家务。。。
结婚了后,孩子很少会来了,忙着自己的家庭。。。偶尔假日才回来看看父母。。。每个月意思意思的给RM200 。孩子自己也困难了。要维持自己的家庭
好了,30年前的计划希望能够开始,旅行!!
大事不妙,媳妇怀孕了,生了个孩子。。。母亲代抚养,因为媳妇孩子都做工
本来平静的退休生活又再次起了涟漪。。。每天就要照顾孙子,晚上他哭我就跟着醒,开始学习新的技术,喂奶,包尿片,唱歌,拍手掌。。。
孩子每个月意思意思的给多RM300,当着是孙子的伙食费 。。。
照顾了5年后,孙子大了,孩子抱回去了,一切回归平静。忽然想起30年前的约定,决定和妻子去旅行。。。。
还是去不成了,妻子年级大了,病痛也多了。。。自己的腰骨也常闹别扭。。。医生说要多休息。。。孩子已经抱回孙子,每个月意思意思的给回RM300 伙食费
惟有呆在家里看电视。。。。一天早上,妻子看见为什么老头没有起来扫地。。。想去房里骂我,但我已经回到天国去了。。。
孩子为我做了后事。。。
最后我成了一张照片。
人生就是如此讽刺。。。呵呵

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

寬恕人的過失,便是自己的榮耀

有一個小學老師在偏遠的鄉里教書,
這天,他來到自己班上的教室,
問班上的小朋友:「你們大家有沒有討厭的人啊」
小朋友們想了想,有的未作聲,有的則猛力地點點頭。

老師接著便發給每人一個袋子,說:
「我們來玩一個遊戲。現在大家想想看,過去這一 週,
曾有那些人得罪過你他到底做了怎麼樣可惡的事,想到後,
就利用放學時間到河邊去找一塊石頭,
把他的名字給用小紙條貼在石頭上,
如果他實在很過份,你就找一塊大一點的石頭,
如果他的錯是小錯,你就找一塊小一點的石頭。
每天把戰利品用袋子裝到學校來給老師看哦!」

學生們感到非常有趣且新鮮,
放學後,每個人都搶著到河邊去找石頭。

第二天一早,
大家都把裝著從河邊撿來的鵝卵石的袋子帶到學校來,
興高采烈地討論著。

一天過去了,兩天過去了,三天過去了….. ,
有的人的袋子越裝越大,幾乎成了負擔。

終於,
有人提出了抗議「老師,好累喔」老師笑了笑沒說話,
立刻又有人接著喊:
「對啊每天背著這些石頭來上課, 好累喔 」

這時,老師終於開口了,
她笑著說:「那就放下這些代表著別人過犯的石頭吧」

孩子們有些訝異,

老師又接著講:
「學習寬恕別人的過犯 ,
不要把它當寶一樣的記在心上,扛在肩上,
時間久了,任誰也受不了…」

這個星期,這班的同學上到了人生中極寶貴的一課。
袋裡裝入越多、越大的「石頭」,
心中存留越多、越深的仇恨,
所造成的負擔就越重。

假如你有寫上我名字的石頭
你應當知道該怎樣做了吧!

我很喜歡一句名諺:
「寬恕人的過失,便是自己的榮耀。」
懂得「放下」,何等自在。

請不吝分享,或許今天正有人需要它!

相愛容易相處難,婚姻與戀愛最大的不同,
就是「戀愛看的是對方的優點」,
而「婚姻卻是要包容對方的缺點」。

Made with ... 緣份是找到包容你的人
用心過好每一天.相信每天都是美好的一天 ;

好運會降臨在樂觀開朗的人身上!
 
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